Do you believe in ghosts?

[Scarybiscuits03]

The house does not have any history as we are the 1st to live here, which made me question myself more! I always felt a presence in my last house and when a family member came to visit she swore not to come back as she thought it was haunted (strangely also a new build), I always felt comfortable about it though whereas in this house I always feel as though Im being watched.
I believe I have seen a ghost of a little girl twice one night, watching over my OH as he kept coughing and spluttering in his sleep, then the next day my daughter had dreamed of the same girl, same clothes and she was looking for someone to take her in.......freaky.
Dont mind a little girl ghost, not so sure she should be smoking cigars though!

[Vistravi]

The house does not have any history as we are the 1st to live here, which made me question myself more! I always felt a presence in my last house and when a family member came to visit she swore not to come back as she thought it was haunted (strangely also a new build), I always felt comfortable about it though whereas in this house I always feel as though Im being watched.
I believe I have seen a ghost of a little girl twice one night, watching over my OH as he kept coughing and spluttering in his sleep, then the next day my daughter had dreamed of the same girl, same clothes and she was looking for someone to take her in.......freaky.
Dont mind a little girl ghost, not so sure she should be smoking cigars though!

It sounds like you've had someone move around with you. Growing up we always had a spirit in every hosue we've ever lived in. It is now my mum knows it is her mother and always has been her mother. She was very much for boys and i have 4 brothers. At first it bugged me that there was always someone there watching you come up the stairs but now i just say hello to her lol. The lassie could have been there from before the house you are in was built. My partner and i lived in a block of flats that were newly built and on the landing there was a spirit who constantly made me feel as if i was being pushed into out flat when it was dark. When my sister came to stay i asked her to tell me who it was outside on the landing and she told me that it was a woman who was scared and didn't want anyone out in the dark. She had been attacked but not in the flathouse before it had been built there. It is her fear that grounds her there.

My sister can see, sense emotions and can tell you exactly how the spirit came to be there and why they stay. She can mostly always tell you the spirit's name too. I can only sense them and pinpoint exactly where they are standing. I would love to develop it further but there are times when i am glad i can only sense them and pinpoint their location.

[porshiepoo]

The house does not have any history as we are the 1st to live here, which made me question myself more! I always felt a presence in my last house and when a family member came to visit she swore not to come back as she thought it was haunted (strangely also a new build), I always felt comfortable about it though whereas in this house I always feel as though Im being watched.
I believe I have seen a ghost of a little girl twice one night, watching over my OH as he kept coughing and spluttering in his sleep, then the next day my daughter had dreamed of the same girl, same clothes and she was looking for someone to take her in.......freaky.
Dont mind a little girl ghost, not so sure she should be smoking cigars though!

It certainly sounds as though you have spirit moving around with you. It certainly doesn't sound as though they intend any harm though.

The chances are that if you ever found out who it is and found their history then there's most likely going to be a connection to you somewhere.
Dig deep, you may just be able to make the little girl connection yourself?
As for the cigar smoke, don't you know anyone passed over that used to smoke them? A smell is usually there to connect a memory and if that smell is around the girl also then chances are that's where the connection to you will be.
It could also be that the smoker is the one bringing the little girl through or even vice versa.

I would so love to be able to connect with spirit in some way but I know that it's not meant to be.
I've connected in dreams but never the way a true medium would be able to.
I have had a strong belief of an afterlife since the day I was born. It's not something I had drilled into me - in fact it was not talked of too much - but I've always always 'known'.

I don't have a problem with people not believing, that's completely cool too but my belief of an afterlife and everything it means both in this life and in passing over has helped me through some horrific times in my life.

It would be great to know if you ever get to the bottom of your visits.

Incidentally how old is your daughter? I believe the younger they are the more open to spirit they are. The older they become the more cynical society teaches them to be and they lose their openness.

[katarina]

The house does not have any history as we are the 1st to live here, which made me question myself more! I always felt a presence in my last house and when a family member came to visit she swore not to come back as she thought it was haunted (strangely also a new build), I always felt comfortable about it though whereas in this house I always feel as though Im being watched.
I believe I have seen a ghost of a little girl twice one night, watching over my OH as he kept coughing and spluttering in his sleep, then the next day my daughter had dreamed of the same girl, same clothes and she was looking for someone to take her in.......freaky.
Dont mind a little girl ghost, not so sure she should be smoking cigars though!

seems it's you who are attracting the spirits,not the house. find out what they want.

[ryrie]

didn't bevieve till my dad died. wouldn't say it was a ghost but a presence. weeks after he died i would wake in the middle of the night and he would be sitting at my side telling me he was ok.didn't tell anybody about it cause they would think i was crackin up.one night months after he died i had a BIG argument with oh, and thought i dreamt that he was telling me to leave and get out of the house,when i woke up i was sitting in the car freezing cold!!!!! spooky or what!

[Commore]

I am unsure, about ghosts that is, however, I intend to be one, one day
there is a particular person that I have promised to haunt, and haunt him I will if not in my lifetime, then after I am dead.

With regard to your cigar smoking "friend" from your cupboard, I did when I was younger, experience similar but again no explanation could be found,

I think maybe the "spirit" of a person could linger awhile,