I didnt know one set of grandparents very well, and they died when I was about 6/7yrs old. The other set were the ones we adored! My Granny is still here but sadly lost my Grandad 2.5yrs ago. My Granny is 85yrs old and is in no way able to look after my 3 kids, and I wouldnt dare ask her to! As she is the only family we have within a 600 mile radius, leaves us to be the PARENTS! We had the kids, its our responsibility to look after them.
When my dad visits (twice a year) he will send me and hubby out for the evening, however we usually go out at 7.30pm once kids in bed, and are home by 10pm! I know full well that once the kids are old enough to be left alone, we will go out more, but for now, Im actually happy to stay home.
I think the grandparents that do regularly have their grandchildren - and Im talking once/twice a week so the parents can go out are saints but at the same time, hindering the parents.... life changes when you have children, you have to make huge sacrifices, which means you cant just dump and run whenever the fancy takes you.
We child proofed the house..... but they keep getting in!
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