Originally Posted by
Fran
I was very interested in your posts as i have just discovered that himselfs dog is howling when we go out. Neighbours have toild me. also the other day himself went out and the dog howled, a horrible whaling, even though i was upstairs, what a fright i got. He is a very loved dog and the radio is left on for him. when we go out he knows we are about to go and he runs up the stairs and lies at the top of the stairs. Maybe he is too loved and spoiled. Not sure what to do about this howling. He doesnt chew or damage anything and has my cat for company.
Your dog doesn't measure your love. He could care less if you live in a mansion or live on the steets, he is just measuring his own security by reading the security of the pack leader. If the pack leader isn't giving off an assertive energy that is what your dog will be reading and he will act accordingly.
Leaving music on does nothing more than make ourselves feel better, believing we are doing what's best for the dog. For all your dogs concerned music makes no difference.
What did you do when he howled? Did you rush to him and comfort him? We've all done it but it's not necessarily the right thing to do.
Your dog will pick up on your energy when you leave him, if you are worried he knows it, if you're sad he knows it, if you're anxious he knows it and all by reading your energy. If the so called pack leader is giving off that energy then that cannot be good for the pack as far as your dog is concerned and he'll act accordingly.
We all need to bear in mind that dogs are canines not humans so to use human psychology is as about as much use as using equine psychology on us. Once we all accept that our pets are canines first and pets second then we'll have a much easier time.
I know I rant on about Cesar Milan but I believe in his methods so much (I've tried and tested em) that had I been more aware a few years ago when I had to have two of my dogs PTS, then the situation would have been extremely different. The situation that happened would not have occured in the first place and if it had I would have bought my dogs home from the vet and sorted it. Instead I've lost two beloved pets (1 I bred myself) due to my own negligence of what dogs are and what they need. Believe me, that's harder to live with than the actual putting them to sleep.
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