wedding dress for older bride

i am getting married next year for the third time, i know i have chosen the right man for me. but i am getting lots of advice about what i should not do, particularly with my wedding dress...my mother suggested that i wear a pant suit or something similar in ivory or champagne. My bridesmaids keep steering me towards simple tea length party dresses. i don't want a fairytale princess dress, but i do want to look special and gorgeous in a gown. i have been having a heck of a time finding a dress, looking for something classically sexy that is age appropriate. i think this dress may be the one but i am still a little nervous about it. Please give me your thoughts. Thanks so much. http://www.inweddingdress.com/style-mo147.html
it is a MOB dress, but will order it in light ivory. Has anyone else got a MOB dress instead of a wedding dress?? Any pics if possible. This is the only thing i am fussing about.
Thanks ladys.xx

The MOB Dress is lovely.
Another option could be something from www.tartanbodices.co.uk or on her facebook page it may give you another option as separates can look nice too. Also a little bit different. x