karia
01-May-07, 18:09
Today my lovely, feisty, very funny, mum got diagnosed
with breast cancer.
She had a lung removed due to t.b, when she was very young, fought and fought to have me. (medical history, in its time.. i am :).)
and has continued to astound ever since.
Her, not me!
I have the abject honour of being the product of the most beautiful 60 +
year relationship ,( my husband & i are working on it!) between her & my dad!
She is already very unwell, and elderly.. and I don,t want her messed with ,
She is unable to exist without a positive oxygen supply, by mask.
today despite being told she was B Pap dependant she was left without
proper nursing staff, and was on the verge of being admitted, after waiting an hour & 1/4 for the ( booked in advance..& indeed cancelled when it came without the proper equipment,) ambulance to transport her to her
home, ...3 mins from the hospital, after a very long stint !
..the breast clinic folk assigned us oxygen nurses, everyone was great but the ambulance service would not bend or cater to thefact that
she required , pressured oxygen, all through the event..!
Next week, I'm going to her appointment..by proxy!
Then I get to tell her, what can & cannot be done. .. she's old and ill..and the most outspoken, strong minded, funniest person ive ever known.
I love her, we all love her.
At best, I get to tell her..what?
They ruled out surgery, chemo, and radiotherapy, maybe tamoxifen if you've got the 'right' sort of cancer?
As I left tonight, she was in her 'miss naughty' socks.. she looked at me & said, 'i'm frightened!
I didn't say it, but 'me too':~(
thanks, Karia
with breast cancer.
She had a lung removed due to t.b, when she was very young, fought and fought to have me. (medical history, in its time.. i am :).)
and has continued to astound ever since.
Her, not me!
I have the abject honour of being the product of the most beautiful 60 +
year relationship ,( my husband & i are working on it!) between her & my dad!
She is already very unwell, and elderly.. and I don,t want her messed with ,
She is unable to exist without a positive oxygen supply, by mask.
today despite being told she was B Pap dependant she was left without
proper nursing staff, and was on the verge of being admitted, after waiting an hour & 1/4 for the ( booked in advance..& indeed cancelled when it came without the proper equipment,) ambulance to transport her to her
home, ...3 mins from the hospital, after a very long stint !
..the breast clinic folk assigned us oxygen nurses, everyone was great but the ambulance service would not bend or cater to thefact that
she required , pressured oxygen, all through the event..!
Next week, I'm going to her appointment..by proxy!
Then I get to tell her, what can & cannot be done. .. she's old and ill..and the most outspoken, strong minded, funniest person ive ever known.
I love her, we all love her.
At best, I get to tell her..what?
They ruled out surgery, chemo, and radiotherapy, maybe tamoxifen if you've got the 'right' sort of cancer?
As I left tonight, she was in her 'miss naughty' socks.. she looked at me & said, 'i'm frightened!
I didn't say it, but 'me too':~(
thanks, Karia