sad news

[brandy]

hi guys,
we just wanted to let everyone know that our little boy thomas came into the world asleep last night.
hes so beautiful and looks so peacful, but i guess he wasnt meant for this world.
we will be making arangments as soon as we can as we are in raigmore at the moment.
will be announcment in paper but will try and post here as well.
thank you all for all yoour thoughts and prayers thru out this preg.
i just wish we had better news
brandy

thomas archibald lewis miller
born
tues 6th feb 2007-tues 6th feb 2007
10lbs 14ozs
21 inches long

[nancypotter45]

Oh Brandy that is so, so sad. I am so sorry for you and your family. My thoughts are with you all. Thomas was a bumper of a weight.

[newpark]

Brandy, I don't know what to say. How very sad. My thoughts are with you and your family.

[Angela]

Brandy, I'm so sorry. My heart goes out to you and your family.

[danc1ngwitch]

Brandy, all my thoughts are with you and your family at this very difficult time. Know that i am thinking of you and urs xxx

[Wish]

I am so very sorry to hear this sad news, my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Rest in peace Thomas, you are much loved xxx

[Alice in Blunderland]

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HU1OaCglgw0


Brandy I am so sorry for you and your family at this tme.


The Cord


We are connected,
My child and I, by
An invisible cord
Not seen by the eye.


It's not like the cord
That connects us 'til birth
This cord can't been seen
By any on Earth.


This cord does it's work
Right from the start.
It binds us together
Attached to my heart.


I know that it's there
Though no one can see
The invisible cord
From my child to me.


The strength of this cord
Is hard to describe.
It can't be destroyed
It can't be denied.


It's stronger than any cord
Man could create
It withstands the test
Can hold any weight.


And though you are gone,
Though you're not here with me,
The cord is still there
But no one can see.


It pulls at my heart
I am bruised...I am sore,
But this cord is my lifeline
As never before.


I am thankful that God
Connects us this way
A mother and child
Death can't take it away!

[Penelope Pitstop]

Brandy

So very, very sorry to hear your news. I too just don't know what to say. My thoughts and best wishes go to you and your family.

[Oddquine]

I'm so very sorry to hear such sad news. My heart goes out to you and your family, Brandy.

[nightowl]

Brandy
You are being so brave. All our thoughts are with you and your family through this so sad time.

[misty woman]

i am devastated to read about your baby,my thoughts are with you and your familyxx.

[topotheuk]

Brandy
I am so so sorry to hear your tragic news. As the tears stream down my face I can only begin to imagine what you and your family are feeling. Please know you and your family are in my thoughts.

[coastown]

Brandy
So sorry to hear about your loss,my thoughts are with you and your family.

[Bill Fernie]

Sorry to hear of your loss.
It is never easy and I hope you are yourself well following this.

[stratman]

I am so sad to read this news Brandy and hope you and yours can find the strength to cope with and impossible situation.

[pat]

Thoughts are with you and your family.

[johno]

Brandy, we are so very sorry to hear of your sad loss. our hearts go out to you and your family in your time of need.

[Mizpah]

So sorry to hear your news you must be devastated just now, please accept my love and prayers at this sad time for you all.

[mums angels]

It's very sad to hear of your loss. Thoughts and prayers will be with you, your family and with Thomas.

[lin]

Brandy, my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this sad time.

[bobsgirl]

Sorry to hear of your loss Brandy. My thoughts are with you and your family.

[emszxr]

brandy, so very very sorry to hear of the loss of your baby. my prayers are with you and your family. rest in peace thomas

[Hibeechick]

Brandy,
So sorry. Thoughts are with you and your family x

[candyfloss]

So sorry to hear your sad news Brandy, my thoughts are with you and your family x x x

[trinkie]

I am so sorry to hear your Sad News Brandy.

You are a brave girl and I hope and pray you will recover from this loss in time.

Sleep on little Thomas you are a very special baby and will be forever loved.

Trinkie

[kc]

Brandy,
What can I say, I am so upset for you and yours, our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family, X

[MadPict]

brandy,
My sincerest condolences to you and your family. Very sad time for you all.

[Allsorts]

Just wanted to send my love to you all and I am so sorry you are going though the pain of lossing Thomas. Thinking of you and your family.

[KCI]

So sorry to hear your news Brandy.
Our thoughts are with you.

[Sianymo]

Deepest Sympathies for you and your family Brandy.
XXX

[Kaishowing]

You're in our thoughts. XXX

[las123]

im so sorry to hear this brandy, our thoughts are with you and your family xx

[lynne duncan]

all our thoughts are with you and your family, lynne

[Piglet]

So sorry to here your news Brandy. Our thoughts are with you.

[crashbandicoot1979]

Brandy

I'm so sorry to hear this, my thoughts are with you and your family. Love and best wishes to you all, rest in peace Thomas xxx

[cuddlepop]

.Our thoughts are with you and yours and our deepest sympathy.:~(
I'm sure I can say theirs a big Orger hug around your family just now.

[footie chick]

So very sorry for you and your family take care

[Billy Boy]

there are no words that can heal your pain lol only time can do that,my thoughts are with you and your family:(

[gunnlass]

thoughts with you at this sad time x

[Ojibwa]

I am so sad to hear that Brandy. Thinking of you and your family. Kindest thoughts. Ojibwa xox

[airdlass]

Brandy my thoughts are with you and your family at this sad time.

[Mr P Cannop]

Brandy.you and your family are in my thoughts

[kitty]

Very very sd news. My thoughts are with you and your family. xx

[moonshadow]

You're in our thoughts. XXX


thinking of you, brandy.

[nicnak]

Brandy our thoughts and prayers go out with all our hearts to you all x

[debs]

sorry to hear your sad news,my thoughts are with you

[Tubthumper]

My deepest sympathies Brandy, to you and your family.

[Woolie]

I was so sorry to hear your sad news my heart goes out to u and your family may u find the strengh to get though this time and with all the love that surrounds u I am sure u will. Rest in peace dear thomas xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

[Stumurf]

I am deeply saddened by your news...
i offer my most heartfelt condolences to you and your family at this time...

[buggyracer]

thoughts are with you terrible shame.

[henry20]

Brandy, I am so sorry to hear your news. I wish you and your family all the strength needed to get through this difficult time. xxx

[Blazing Sporrans]

Brandy, so sorry for your loss and saddened by the news. My wife and I have been through the same dreadful experience and I know the heartbreak that follows that never truly disappears, no matter how much time passes. But with every passing day, you can learn to smile a little more. Love to you all. X

[wild1]

so sorry to hear this sad news my heart goes out to you. xx

[bingo1]

Sorry to hear about your sad loss. My thoughts are with you.

[Moira]

Brandy - my heart goes out to you and your family at this sad news. Best thoughts & wishes are with you all.

[Cinders392]

Thinking of you at this difficult time.
Best Wishes x

[Jackpot]

Brandy, just wanted to say how sorry I was to read your post about Thomas. There is nothing I can say to take away your hurt but I will send you and your family some (((hugs))) and prayers that you will get through this difficult time.

Rest In Peace Thomas
xx

[jinglejangle]

I just wanted to say my thoughts are with you and your family at this terribly sad time. Take care x

[whatsherface]

Brandy, I am so sorry to hear about your sad news. Words cannot describe how you must be feeling at this moment. I wish you and your family peace and the strength to get through this difficult time. My thoughts are with you.

[caithness lad]

im not a very emotional person, but this news is very sad. my thoughts r with u all.

[gleeber]

A sad loss Brandy. All the best to yourself and your husband for the future.

[connieb19]

My thoughts are with you and your family brandy.

[Fluff]

Brandy, I hope you and your family are as ok as you can be. I am sure the big fluffy cloud he is sleeping on is very comfy and warm.
xxx

[porshiepoo]

So very sorry Brandy xxx



Daddy, please don't look so sad,
Mama please don't cry~
"Cause I am in the arms of Jesus
and He sings me lullabies."
Please, try not to question God,
Don't think he is unkind
Don't think He sent me to you,
and then He changed his mind.
You see, I am a special child,
and I'm needed up above
I'm the special gift you gave Him,
the product of your love.
I'll always be there with you
and watch the sky at night,
Find the brightest star that's gleaming,
That's my halo's brilliant light.
You'll see me in the morning frost,
that mists your window pane.
That's me in the summer showers,
I'll be dancing in the rain.
When you feel a little breeze,
from a gentle wind that blows
That's me, I'll be there,
planting a kiss on your nose.
When you see a child playing,
and your heart feels a little tug,
That's me, I'll be there,
giving your heart a hug.
So Daddy, please don't look so sad,
Mama don't your cry.
I'm in the arms of Jesus
and He sings me lullabies.

[flyfifer]

Brandy, I am so sorry for your loss. We all followed messages throughout your pregnancy, and are so sad to hear this news. God's love surround you both at this time, and be assured that His love surrounds little Thomas now and always. x

[girnigoe]

Brandy,((((((((())))))))))

Im so, so, so sorry to hear this very sad news.

Our thoughts are with you and your family. xxxxxxx

[Foxy]

Sorry to hear your sad news. My thoughts are with you and your family at this sad time.

[johndy]

Thinking of you at this difficult time.
Best Wishes

[sam]

my thoughts are with you all at this very sad and difficult time......

God takes care of Heaven's garden
Where he has many angel flowers
He waters each one fondly
With his very own special powers
Loving each one tenderly
Loving each one just right
The angel flowers watch over us
God's garden must be
A beautiful sight.

[DarkAngel]

My thoughts are with you and your family Brandy.

Sleep well little Thomas. R.I.P xXx xXx xXx

[highlander]

So sorry to hear about your sad news brandy, our thoughts are with you and your family.

[elaine]

Thinking of you at this sad time.

:-(

[percy toboggan]

Sincere condolences at this time of heartbreak..
May you find strength from those who love you.

[stewart4364]

I do not know you but I am so sorry to hear about your sad loss.

[mr do dar]

brandy.. our full house hold is so sorry for you i hope and pray you pull through it . please keep strong our thoughts are with you at a terrible time like this :(
i just could sit and cry with you .

[mrs n]

brandy i am so very sad to hear about little thomas, just heartbreaking, love and hugs to you xx

[Lavenderblue2]

Dear Brandy - I am so sorry to read your sad news - dear little Thomas was obviously too good for this world.
My thoughts and prayers are with you - may you be given the strength and courage to cope with your loss.

Sleep peacefully Thomas and bless you all.


Lavenderblue2

[windowman]

thinking of you both sad news

[pops31]

So very sorry for your loss. thinking of you and your family.

[peedie wifie]

Heartfelt condolences to you and your family at this very sad time. x

[Saveman]

That is very very sad news....I'm so sorry Brandy. :(

[the charlatans]

Brandy i am so sorry to hear that little Thomas has been taken to sleep with the angels. I have read your story through the months and i'm just sitting here crying for you and your family. God bless you and keep you at this excruciating time. He will be carrying you right now as all your Org friends wish they could. All my love The Charlatans xxx

[Moby]

Oh Brandy I am so so sorry to hear of your loss. Losing a child is just the worst heartache anyone must cope with, it is a hurt that will never leave you but I promise, in time, is a hurt you will learn to live with. He will always be with you in your heart.

[Geo]

So sorry for you all Brandy. Our thoughts are with you.

[lab]

I cant imagine what you and your family must be feeling but my thoughts are with you all.

[Buttercup]

Just so heartbreaking. Thinking of you.

Your little angel went back to Heaven
Although Thomas Archibald Lewis's stay on earth
Seemed a fleeting moment in time
Your loving memories of him
Will last forever

[Rheghead]

We are both very sad to hear of your loss, there are no words that can express how much sympathy we have for you and your husband.

[krieve]

Brandy, I am so so sorry to hear of your loss. My thoughts are with you and your family at this sad time.

[WeeBurd]

Brandy, my love, my heart is breaking for you and your family right now. Please find comforting in knowing your very own wee angel will always be with you.

[bobsgirl]

I just thought this would be nice for you to read. My sister went through the hurt of losing a child at birth and this put a glow into her heart.

What Makes A Mother
(http://www.bebo.com/BlogView.jsp?MemberId=2908493253&BlogId=3528953143)I thought of you and closed my eyes
And prayed to God today
I asked "What makes a Mother?"
And I know I heard him say
A Mother has a baby
This we know is true
But, God, can you be a mother
When your baby's not with you?

Yes, you can he replied
With confidence in his voice
I give many women babies
When they leave it is not their choice
Some I send for a lifetime
And others for the day
And some I send to feel your womb
But there's no need to stay.

I just don't understand this God
I want my baby here

He took a breath
and cleared his throat
And then I saw a tear
I wish I could show you
What your child is doing today
If you could see your child smile
With other children and say
"We go to earth to learn our lessons
of love and life and fear
My mommy loved me so much
I got to come straight here
I feel so lucky to have a Mom who had so much love for me
I learned my lessons very quickly
My Mommy set me free.

I miss my Mommy oh so much
But I visit her each day
When she goes to sleep
On her pillows where I lay
I stroke her hair and kiss her cheek
And whisper in her ear
Mommy don't be sad today
I'm your baby and I am here"

So you see my dear sweet one
Your children are okay
Your babies are here in My home
And this is where they'll stay
They'll wait for you with Me
Until your lessons are through
And on the day you come home
they'll be at the gates for you

So now you see
What makes a Mother
It's the feeling in your heart
It's the love you had so much of
Right from the very start
Though some on earth
May not realize
Until their time is done
Remember all the love you have
And know that you are
A Special Mom

[nibis]

Our thoghts are with you and your family, we feel really sorry about the sad news.

[sweetpea]

[ but i guess he wasnt meant for this world.

No your right he is meant for a better one.


thomas archibald lewis miller
born
tues 6th feb 2007-tues 6th feb 2007
10lbs 14ozs
21 inches long[/quote]

[chocolatechip]

all my thoughts are with you and your husband and your family. all the threaders here on caithness.org are with you at this difficult time Brandy. i'm sure when you get home you will need a stiff "BRANDY" hence the name

[dragonfly]

Brandy

Like every other person on the org my heart goes out to you and yours. I hope you can take comfort from the messages and poems.

xxxx

From our love sprang inside of me
A bit of hope for family
A tiny child from love's seed formed
A babe with wings for God to mold

And until at the pearly gates we meet
Dear God please hold my baby for me
and tell him one day soon we'll come
and rock his cradle with words of love

Don't look so sad
Don't cry for me
My child's with God for eternity

And while in the house of God you stay
Please watch over mommy and daddy each day
and as darkness decends to blot out the light
We will blow you a kiss
Did you catch it? Goodnight

[johnlc]

Brandy
I am so sorry to hear about Thomas,my heart goes out to you and ur family.xxxxxxxxxxxxxx

[Bingobabe]

I am so sorry to hear of the loss of your son. My thoughts are with you and your family at this very difficult time.

[Fran]

dear Brandy, i have sent you a pm xxx

[taylor.4]

I am so sorry for your loss brandy, my thoughts to you and your family at this sad time xx

[sassylass]

Brandy and Mr Brandy, this is very sad news and my heart goes out to you.

[htwood]

Such sad news and a terrible loss. Best to you both as your hearts begin to heal. -H

[Sporran]

Brandy, I am deeply saddened to hear of the loss of precious baby Thomas. My heartfelt sympathy goes out to you and your family, and you are in my thoughts and prayers.

[scorrie]

Best wishes to you and your family at this terrible time. Take care.

[Bradcon]

MY thoughts are with you and your family at this sad time. Take care.

[Glenys Hirst]

So sorry to hear of your sad news..May God keep you in His care and give you peace.Thinking about you and remembering you in my prayers.

[bigjjuk]

Hi Brandy
Im very sorry for your loss.

My thoughts on this are this....... This is my presonal belief but its a positive one, if you can understand it.

I believe that when you have done your job which has been given to you in this world you earn your right to progress into heaven or wotever follows after our life on earth. Little Thomas did his jobh so well that he jumped a stage and went straight to that better place.He is obviously a better person then i am as im still here:)

I know its hard but chin up

Jay

[Genoa]

Dear Brandy,

I heard your very sad news yesterday and have been waiting to get on this site to send you, your husband and your precious boys my thoughts and prayers.

Rest in peace little Thomas.

[Sandra_B]

I am so very sorry to hear of your loss. My thoughts are with you.

[Ricco]

Oh, Brandy. I'm sorry this happened. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

[badger]

Have only just seen this and am so very sorry, have not cried like this for a long time. I lost a little granddaughter last year who was born too soon and have planted a little tree in the garden which I can see from my window. It seems to form a link that I can talk to and maybe you could find some comfort in the same way.

It is not growing like a tree
In bulk, doth make Man better be;
Or standing long an oak, three hundred year,
To fall a log at last, dry, bald, and sere:
A lily of a day
Is fairer far in May,
Although it fall and die that night,
It was the plant and flower of Light.
In small proportions we just beauties see;
And in short measures life may perfect be.

[Liz]

Oh Brandy I am so very, very sorry to hear the sad news about baby Thomas.

My sincere condolences to you, Donald and the boys.

Thinking of you.

[lelebo]

so sorry for your tragic loss Brandy - my thoughts are with you are your family x

[teddybear1873]

Please accept my most heartfelt sympathies for your loss…my thoughts are with you and your family during this difficult time.

[the original ducky]

dear brandy, im so sorry for your loss and hope that you are ok. remember to stay strong threw this upsetting time. my heart goes out to you it really does. with much love and well wishes hannah and the rest of the family. xxx
hope you find comfprt threw this difficult time with all the best wishes and poems that orgers are sending you. hannahxxx

[weeboyagee]

How very, very sad Brandy. So very sorry for you and the family. Hope you find some strength and comfort from the support you are seeing on these pages.

WBG :(

[groatsgirl]

Dear Brandy & Family,
Our thoughts & love go out to you at this very sad time


God gave you to us fast asleep,
A blessing that we could not keep,
Our little angel, pure and sweet,
Although we never got to meet,
We always thought you would stay,
But you were swiftly whisked away,
Into Gods arms, your lifes to be,
Without daddy and me,
Although your life was cut so short,
Were always left with one sweet thought,
Throughout our lives you'll always be,
Our little Angel Thomas.

Sleep well little one xxxx

[BazzaG]

My thoughts are with you and your family at this sad time.

[souperman]

So sorry to hear your sad news, wee Thomas has touched many hearts.

[Big Jean]

Brandy and family,

I am terribly sorry to hear the sad news about your baby. We send our deepest sympathy to you and your entire family .

[alice]

So sorry to hear your sad news. My thoughts are with you and and your family at this sad time.

[Whitewater]

So sorry Brandy, our thoughts are with you, Donald and the family during these dark days.

[North Rhins]

I too lost a child before they had chance to draw breath. My comfort then as it now, is one day we shall be united. My thoughts and sorrow go out to you.

‘And God shall wipe away all tears from their eyes; and there shall be no more death, neither sorrow, nor crying, neither shall there be any more pain: for the former things are passed away.’ Revelations xxi

[celtchicky]

sory to hear ur sad news. thoughts are with u and ur family at this time xx

[paris]

No words can begin to tell you how sorry we all are to hear of your very very sad loss. God bless little Thomas. jan x

[lassieinfife]

No word can express how sad and sorry I feel for you both and for your family at this sad time for you all.May your God bless you all.and baby Thomas

[dirdyweeker]

So very sorry to hear of your loss, what a very sad time for you all. I am sure all these poems and thoughts from your fellow Orgers will give you some comfort. Thinking of you and the family.

[Bobbyian]

Sorry to read the Bad News Our thoughts go out to you and your Family.

[_awayoflife_]

we are so so sorry to hear your sad news, our hearts go out to you and your family.

[Lolabelle]

Oh Brandy, I am so saddened by your news. I am crying and I don't know what to say.But my love and prayers go to you and your family.

[Venture]

Its so hard to know what to say to someone in your situation. As a mother myself my heart goes out to you and your family. My thoughts are with you. Take care.

[Margaret M.]

Brandy, I am so sad to learn about baby Thomas. My deepest sympathy to you and your family on your devastating loss.

[donnasmithy27]

Brandy and Family My deepest sympathy,
My thoughts are with you at this very hard time
Take care

[Elenna]

We are so sad to hear the news about baby Thomas. Sending thoughts of comfort and prayers for peace of heart for you and your family, from myself, Saltire, and Crystal.

Elenna XX

[engiebenjy]

Brandy, I can't even begin to imagine how you are feeling. My thoughts are with you and your family at this very sad time.

[Mad1man]

same reply as everyone else - Thoughts and prayers with you and yours

[peter macdonald]

Thoughts and prayers with you and yours Lass

[darkie@dreamtilt.com.au]

Brandy,sorry to read about wee Thomas,I think Aliceinblunderland is right about the cord,take care of yourself & yours

[Lucy]

Brandy our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this very sad time. Please take care and we all look forward to hearing you on the org again when you feel up to it.

Lucy

[katarina]

Oh, Brandy, I'm so so sorry. I lost twin boys myself, born asleep, so I know just how you feel. My deepest sympathies are with you at this time.
And what is happening? This is the fourth local still-birth I have heard about in as many months. I'm beginning to ask myself why?

[DarkAngel]

Oh, Brandy, I'm so so sorry. I lost twin boys myself, born asleep, so I know just how you feel. My deepest sympathies are with you at this time.
And what is happening? This is the fourth local still-birth I have heard about in as many months. I'm beginning to ask myself why?


I agree..Maybe if they didnt do away with the 32 weeks scan maybe thing would be different

[jings00]

ach, sorry to hear yer sad news, Brandy.
Take care

[catjane]

So sorry to hear the sad news, thinking of you and all your family.

[Max]

So sorry to hear this news my heart goes out to you and your family

[highlander2222]

Thinking of you and don

[Julia]

A Little Angel

You've just walked on ahead of me
And I've got to understand
You must release the ones you love
And let go of their hand

I try and cope the best I can
But I'm missing you so much
If I could only see you
Or once more feel your touch

Yes, you've just walked on ahead of me
Don't worry I'll be fine
But now and then I swear I feel
Your little hand in mine

[funky-dunky]

hello brandy i am so sorry to hear about your dreadful news, xxxxx

[young_fishin_neep]

i am sorry for your loss, my mum had an eptopic pregnancy which is a sad thing aswell, my thoughts are with you and your family

just a little poem for you

in a baby castle just beyond your eye,
your baby plays with angel toys that money cannot buy.
who are you to wish him back
into this world of strife?
no, play on baby, you have enternal life.

at night when all is silent and sleep forsakes your eyes,
you'll hear his tiny footsteps come running to your side,
his little hands caress you.
so tenderly and sweet,
breath a prayer and
close your eyes and embrace
him in your sleep.

now u have a treasure that u rate above all other,
u have known true glory- u are still his mother

kaz xxx