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tonkatojo
23-Dec-10, 13:02
I received this e-mail it makes a lot of sense, well to me it does.




Five (5) lessons about the way we treat people



1 - First Important Lesson - Cleaning Lady.




During my second month of college, our professor

Gave us a pop quiz. I was a conscientious student


And had breezed through the questions until I read

The last one:


"What is the first name of the woman who cleans the school?"

Surely this was some kind of joke. I had seen the

Cleaning woman several times. She was tall,

Dark-haired and in her 50's, but how would I know her name?



I handed in my paper, leaving the last question

Blank. Just before class ended, one student asked if

The last question would count toward our quiz grade.



"Absolutely, " said the professor.. "In your careers,

You will meet many people. All are significant.. They

Deserve your attention and care, even if all you do

Is smile and say "hello.."



I've never forgotten that lesson.. I also learned her

Name was Dorothy.



2. - Second Important Lesson - Pickup in the Rain



One night, at 11:30 p.m., an older African American

Woman was standing on the side of an Alabama highway

Trying to endure a lashing rain storm. Her car had

Broken down and she desperately needed a ride.

Soaking wet, she decided to flag down the next car.

A young white man stopped to help her, generally

Unheard of in those conflict-filled 1960's. The man

Took her to safety, helped her get assistance and

Put her into a taxicab.



She seemed to be in a big hurry, but wrote down his

Address and thanked him. Seven days went by and a

Knock came on the man's door. To his surprise, a

Giant console colour TV was delivered to his home. A

Special note was attached.



It read:

"Thank you so much for assisting me on the highway

The other night. The rain drenched not only my

Clothes, but also my spirits. Then you came along.

Because of you, I was able to make it to my dying

Husband's' bedside just before he passed away... God

Bless you for helping me and unselfishly serving

Others."



Sincerely,

Mrs. Nat King Cole.



3 - Third Important Lesson - Always remember those

Who serve.



In the days when an ice cream sundae cost much less,

A 10-year-old boy entered a hotel coffee shop and

Sat at a table. A waitress put a glass of water in

Front of him.



"How much is an ice cream sundae?" he asked.

"Fifty cents," replied the waitress.



The little boy pulled his hand out of his pocket and

Studied the coins in it.



"Well, how much is a plain dish of ice cream?" he inquired.



By now more people were waiting for a table and the

Waitress was growing impatient..



"Thirty-five cents," she brusquely replied.



The little boy again counted his coins.



"I'll have the plain ice cream," he said.



The waitress brought the ice cream, put the bill on

The table and walked away The boy finished the ice

Cream, paid the cashier and left.. When the waitress

Came back, she began to cry as she wiped down the

Table. There, placed neatly beside the empty dish,

Were two nickels and five pennies..



You see, he couldn't have the sundae, because he had

To have enough left to leave her a tip.



4 - Fourth Important Lesson. - The obstacle in Our Path.



In ancient times, a King had a boulder placed on a

Roadway. Then he hid himself and watched to see if

Anyone would remove the huge rock. Some of the

King's' wealthiest merchants and courtiers came by

And simply walked around it.. Many loudly blamed the

King for not keeping the roads clear, but none did

Anything about getting the stone out of the way.



Then a peasant came along carrying a load of

Vegetables. Upon approaching the boulder, the

peasant laid down his burden and tried to move the

stone to the side of the road. After much pushing

and straining, he finally succeeded. After the

peasant picked up his load of vegetables, he noticed

a purse lying in the road where the boulder had

been. The purse contained many gold coins and a note

from the King indicating that the gold was for the

person who removed the boulder from the roadway. The

peasant learned what many of us never understand!



Every obstacle presents an opportunity to improve

our condition.



5 - Fifth Important Lesson - Giving When it Counts...



Many years ago, when I worked as a volunteer at a

hospital, I got to know a little girl named Liz who

was suffering from a rare & serious disease. Her only

chance of recovery appeared to be a blood

transfusion from her 5-year old brother, who had

miraculously survived the same disease and had

developed the antibodies needed to combat the

illness. The doctor explained the situation to her

little brother, and asked the little boy if he would

be willing to give his blood to his sister.



I saw him hesitate for only a moment before taking a

deep breath and saying, "Yes I'll do it if it will save

her." As the transfusion progressed, he lay in bed

next to his sister and smiled, as we all did, seeing

the colour returning to her cheek. Then his face

grew pale and his smile faded.



He looked up at the doctor and asked with a

trembling voice, "Will I start to die right away".



Being young, the little boy had misunderstood the

doctor; he thought he was going to have to give his

sister all of his blood in order to save her.



Now you have choices.



1 Delete this email, or

2. Forward it other people.

I hope that you will choose No. 2 and remember.



Most importantly.... "Work like you

don't need the money, love like you've never been

hurt, and dance like you do when nobody's watching.

Metalattakk
23-Dec-10, 13:28
Now you have choices.



1 Delete this email, or

2. Forward it other people.



3. Delete as malicious spam.

Birdie Wife
23-Dec-10, 13:47
3. Delete as malicious spam.

It's a shame emails like this have to have the 'forward to xx people'. I don't think it's malicious 'cos it's not saying 'forward this or else'. I like the messages, and I'm going to forward it but without that bit on the end and let people make up their own mind about whether to pass it on.

ShelleyCowie
23-Dec-10, 14:09
That was lovely to read, thank you for sharing :)

orkneycadian
23-Dec-10, 14:16
4. Move to Jokes, Humour and Games thread?

Metalattakk
23-Dec-10, 14:27
It's a shame emails like this have to have the 'forward to xx people'. I don't think it's malicious 'cos it's not saying 'forward this or else'. I like the messages, and I'm going to forward it but without that bit on the end and let people make up their own mind about whether to pass it on.

The message is harmless, feel free to send it to whoever you want.

The email is malicious though. Never send them on.

ShelleyCowie
23-Dec-10, 14:37
4. Move to Jokes, Humour and Games thread?

Is it a joke or a game? [disgust]

RecQuery
23-Dec-10, 14:50
3. Delete as malicious spam.

+1000 - I hate crappy chain e-mail things like this. What sort of person enjoys that crap. The fact that it's made-up cereal box philosophy and wisdom in this instance doesn't help either.

orkneycadian
23-Dec-10, 15:06
Is it a joke or a game? [disgust]

I stand corrected. It is a quotation of the written word, so should be in Literature! :)

onecalledk
23-Dec-10, 15:41
if more people realised that by giving they will receive in ways that they cant even comprehend then there would be no need for emails like this. It is perhaps a poor reflection on society when we have to be sent something that contains what we should be living....

If we all sat and thought about how we could help others without thinking "whats in it for me" the world would be different.

I expect a lot of people even reading this post will sit and think to themselves yes but the world is not the airy fairy place she thinks it is. Well to that I say that WE create the world we live in and only WE can change it.

A little kindness and a helping hand go a long long way .....

K

Leanne
23-Dec-10, 15:45
A lovely one there!

Unfortunately the cynics are right - usually emails like this (and espcially the virus warnings) have viruses attached as they know they will be forwarded on. Usually best to cut and paste if you like it rather than clicking forward...

Duncansby
23-Dec-10, 15:53
I understand what your saying onecalledk and I agree that life is much easier when we are nice to one another. After all it takes a lot less effort to be helpful than it does to be difficult. What I don’t like is receiving emails in my inbox with ‘heart warming’ stories aimed at shaming / or dictating the manner in which I should aim to live my life. I do not need some condescending diatribe composed by goodness knows who trying to patronise me with fictional accounts of challenge over adversity or Good Samaritan stories. I’d prefer to read a good book instead!

tonkatojo
23-Dec-10, 16:06
A lovely one there!

Unfortunately the cynics are right - usually emails like this (and espcially the virus warnings) have viruses attached as they know they will be forwarded on. Usually best to cut and paste if you like it rather than clicking forward...


For you and a few others the original post has been amended, but it beats me how you can get a virus from what I posted. I never send on e-mail I receive from others with multiple addressee's. If it's interesting like this one I usually post the content only.

ducati
23-Dec-10, 18:45
+1000 - I hate crappy chain e-mail things like this. What sort of person enjoys that crap. The fact that it's made-up cereal box philosophy and wisdom in this instance doesn't help either.

Send 'em to Julian!

scorrie
23-Dec-10, 23:43
I despise this type of chain email. I never used to receive them until I had contact with people in the USA and Canada. I am sure many of them mean well but schmaltz tends to be a dish less appealing to the UK palate, despite our tendency towards obesity.

Merry Christmas, please pass this message on to at least 10 friends (strangers if you are short on numbers) or frogs will rain down on your turkey dinner.

cherokee
24-Dec-10, 10:21
I really liked that Tonkatojo !

Really nice sentiments and maybe we could all learn something from it! :)

TudorRose
24-Dec-10, 17:46
I have to say, I liked it too! Sometimes we all need to stop and think, especially at this time of year, when we all get caught up in making Christmas special for our families.

Thank you for posting this thread, Tonkatojo. :)

Wishing you a Merry Christmas and taking this post in the spirit that I'm sure you meant when posting, I and my family appreciated it.:)

Walter Ego
24-Dec-10, 22:53
Brainless, mawkish tripe.

But if it makes you all warm and fuzzy, then fine - it's a free country.

Dog-eared
25-Dec-10, 01:09
If you treat people decently anyway,you don't need this crap to " remind " you how to behave. ;)

northener
25-Dec-10, 11:49
I despise this type of chain email. I never used to receive them until I had contact with people in the USA and Canada. I am sure many of them mean well but schmaltz tends to be a dish less appealing to the UK palate, despite our tendency towards obesity.

Merry Christmas, please pass this message on to at least 10 friends (strangers if you are short on numbers) or frogs will rain down on your turkey dinner.


I'm not having turkey.....so I care not.

TudorRose
25-Dec-10, 22:24
If you treat people decently anyway,you don't need this crap to " remind " you how to behave. ;)

I would hope that I always treat people like I would like them to treat me. Having said that, it is nice to stand back and reflect on how we treat others. No matter how well we try to live our lives, we all have feet of clay. :)

tonkatojo
26-Dec-10, 10:00
Brainless, mawkish tripe.

But if it makes you all warm and fuzzy, then fine - it's a free country.

Unfortunately in some cases.